By Invitation Only
For those who are
waiting well.
AIM for Amour is a selective community for unmarried Christians who are abstinent and saving themselves for marriage. Every member is personally reviewed.
Begin Quietly
Request an invitation.
Leave us your email and phone number. We will send your invitation to apply — pray over it, then begin.
Three Tabs · One Journey
Know where to go.
I
Cultivate Your Forever
Begin your application. Share your story, sign the covenant, and answer ten questions on scripture so our staff can personally verify you.
Start Application →II
Check Status
See whether you're pending, approved, or not advancing. Message our staff with any concerns, or request that your profile be removed.
Check Status →III
Love Awaits
Once approved, build your profile, refine your matches by gender, location and distance, and play Bible games with the one you confirm.
Enter Sanctuary →For Members
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From the Founder
Erica Drex
Minister · Therapist · Business Owner · Founder
"I am a minister, a therapist, and a business owner — and I am happily waiting until marriage. I built AIM for Amour because real believers in Christ deserve a place to meet their forever person. Waiting is not loneliness — it is worship. Dating apps can work when you are intentional, and when you exercise wisdom and discipline through the process. Your forever is worth the wait."
— Erica Drex
The Called
Faces of the faithful.
The Vow
"Do you not know that your bodies are temples of the Holy Spirit, who is in you, whom you have received from God? You are not your own; you were bought at a price. Therefore honor God with your bodies."
1 Corinthians 6:19–20
Every AIM for Amour member affirms a covenant of abstinence and purity before joining. We do not apologize for the standard — we celebrate it. This is a place where waiting is not loneliness, but worship.
The Path
How one is welcomed in.
I
Apply
Share who you are, your denomination, and the social profiles that tell your story.
II
Be Examined
Answer ten questions on scripture. Sign the covenant. We review your life publicly lived online.
III
Enter
Approved members receive an invitation to build their profile and meet others who share the vow.
A Word of Caution
The creators of this dating app, known as "AIM for Amour," are not responsible for the safety or decisions of the matches and therefore are not liable for any damages, injuries, or risks one may be associated with or suffer from by matching with someone. Please use discretion, discernment, and wisdom while meeting up with matches, and always give a trusted family member your location and information of where you will be while out with your match.